The “He’s Just Not That into You” of Sales

Not long ago, a movie was released called “He’s Just Not That into You.” You may or may not have heard of this movie. Essentially it is a cautionary tale of dating rules and how to tell if someone is interested in dating. Guess what; sales is a lot like dating.

I can’t tell you how many times I would be coaching a sales person when they show me their records for a specific prospect and they have left over 20 voicemails with not one return phone call. Guess what? He’s just not that into you!

The sales process has a certain momentum that builds to the closed sale. Certainly there is a lot of variation of timing for different potential customers but the momentum is still there. It is very easy to tell if a prospect is “into” you and will eventually buy. The trick is to figure this out early and focus on these leads. Don’t waste your time chasing down prospects who will probably never buy from you.

Here’s how to tell if a prospect is “into” you:

1. They return your phone calls and / or emails. If you have built respect and rapport with your prospect, they will want to hear what you have to say. You must be prepared with powerful sales scripts and confidence. You still have to impress them with the unique selling proposition of your product or service. When you are successful at this, your prospect will be responsive and the sales momentum can be built.

2. They will set up the next “date” while they are still on a “date” with you. What do I mean by this? Well, here is where I see one of the biggest sales mistakes! Many of my clients will hang up the phone or leave a meeting with a prospect and say, “Okay, I will follow up with you in the next couple weeks or so.” While you are still in the meeting or on the phone, you should set up the next steps and a time and date to do so. If you don’t, you could go into the voicemail abyss. If the prospect will not set up the next time and date, they are probably not that interested.

3. They will tell you information about themselves. When a prospect is willing to answer questions about their goals, needs and challenges, they are telling you that they want your help. If they are unwilling to provide any information, they are not “into” you. You can even create a questionnaire of important qualifying information that will help you present your solution to them. If they answer these questions they are interested in your solution and you have positioned yourself as a trusted advisor.

How about those leads that don’t seem that “into” you? Well, play hard to get. I’m not kidding. Don’t just jump when they want you to. Your time is valuable as well. Don’t let your prospect treat you as if your time is not valuable. If they say, “Why don’t you just call me in a month?” Confirm that they are truly interested. You can even ask something like, “What will happen in the next month that you think you will be more interested in our solution?”

The bottom line is that any good sales relationship has a quid pro quo quality. If you are giving something of value to your prospect than in return your prospect is also giving you value as well. This is a more or less equal exchange of mutual respect, value of time and information. By creating these types of sales relationships, you will not only close more business but create better and more profitable customers.

Your success is our mission!

Sincerely,

Joanne

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